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Monday, September 26, 2011

As if I Care....

You can call me an old fashioned girl but that what I am... I am just so sick of people who keep finding faults with me... I believe that the best thing that you can do in life is follow your heart. I don't mind taking risks. I never take the safe and easy choices just because I'm afraid of what might happen. I don't have any regrets and I know that everything happens for a reason...

If people like me its good and if not then its even better...
But just for God's sake.. cant people stop making me feel that I need to earn their god damn piece of shit that they call love ??? errrrr...

I have been sweet to people all my life and yet they (intentionally or unintentionally) say mean words to me...
There are lot of people in my life who keeps giving me suggestions about how I should change myself and be successful in life... and trust me.. those suggestions are not worth anything...

So.. I wanna say this to all the 'pain in the ass' people who is making my life hell for me... "I could say a lot of things on your face only if I would have been ass holes like you.. But I am me.. so I respect your opinions (even if they are worth less)... I am glad you've got opinions. We're all entitled to 'em... But you know what... I never asked..!!!
So thank you so much for time and it would be wonderful if you people wouldn't waste any more of mine... Get the fuck out of my life fast...."

I am me, and I am okay with it. It doesn't matter what any other person thinks. My life is entirely mine…. I love being myself.


I take chances... in fact a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where I end up- and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. My mistakes have made me who I am... I learn and grow with each choice I make. Let me live my life cause everything is so totally worth it.

35 comments:

Red Handed said...

Ouch Woman!! Chillax ok?
Well its their job to say...some people are born just to do that and without doign that, their life seems meaningless. Your job is to take it the good part and ignore the rest.

Ege said...

I'm totally agree with you :)

Many folks like to tell you: don't do that, and now you have to THINK, and you have got to prepare yourself, if not you're gonna get hurt....

What sort of life will that be, if we calculate everything, and critc everyone for doing what they feel they wanna do??

I think most people that says those things are jealous....

Do things your way, it IS YOUR LIFE.... Big hug :)

Kunal said...

"aage kya hone wala hai ispar kisika control to hai nahi..
to aise mai wahi karti hu jo mera dil kehta hai..
kal mai kisi ko blame nahi karna chahti ki jeet tumharai wajah se meri life aisi ho gayi
meri life jo bhi hogi mujhe pata hoga meri wajah se....to i will be happy"

Kareena in Jab we Met :)

And she was happy in the end :)

Even in real life, it pays to follow your heart. We are tested, sure. But there is peace as well!

Good Luck!

MarieHarmony said...

This is Awesome!!! You are right Madhulika. It took me 30 years to say it out loud.
People are never afraid of hurting you by saying what they think but never allow you to think differently. They have to be right and you have to listen to them.
No way - You are the one to know what is best for you so go for it - Mistakes make us grow and at the end of the day what matters is who we are not who we used to be.

Keep it up! You're great and we love you just this way!
xxxxxxxxxx

Madhulika said...

@Red Handed : trying to chillax ;)

@Ege : Thanks a lot for you words of wisdom... You comment made me feel really good :) :)
*Big Bear Hugs*

@Kunal : hmm.. at times even movie give a great message :)
Thanks a lot for stopping by :) :)

@MarieHarmony : thanks for liking me the way I am... Its better to be hated for who you are rather than being loved for something that you are not :) :)

Pat Hatt said...

Yep tell them where to go, as they are full of crap and don't know a thing about anyone else. They just have to say something because they think it ups their worthless status. Flip them the bird, as you did, and move on.

Bikramjit said...

I like that .. someone asked me the question why do i write on my blog that I AM ME .. and i replied to them that it is BECAUSE I AM ME :)

you will always find people giving advices and all to you but what happenes in their own house no one wants ot look at that :)

so chillax and take care ALL the best in everything

Bikram's

SUB said...

ah...love this post...just the way i think... :D

Cheers!
SUB
http://khonjtheeternalsearch.blogspot.com/

P.N. Subramanian said...

Every individuals is a unique persona. This needs to be understood and respected.

Soumyadeep said...

a small piece of advice...u take or nt take....
never change urself fr othrs...its ur life...u r d master...
no one going to change their life fr ur sake....so y chnge urs???
nice post....
keep blogging....
definitely we cn stay connectd...ur 93rd follower....


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Nona said...

Please turn the middle finger little sideways and avoid pointing at me. :) Take it easy...

PeeVee said...

^ agree:P It looks like you're pointing at us:D

And people talking - stray dogs bark on the street; you respond and tell each one to shut up? No. Because? Not worth your time, better things to do.

See my point?

ed pilolla said...

it all makes soup, all our experiences do.
do what you got to do. say what you got to say. take care of yourself and no one else.
:)

beanizer_05 said...

Taking chances is always better than playing safe all the time. And like you've said, it's all about learning and GROWING..the latter tells all.

I don't think it makes sense to explain ourselves to others..

i believe this definition of EXPLANATION: People who likes you won't need it, people who hates you won't believe it.

chill!

Sie said...

sis as what I have said last night *blink*..learn to value yourself..love should be loving on both ends..don't let anyone control your life..each one of us have our own opinions but in the end it is your life..it will always be your choice..your final say!!

you deserve the Best sis :)

Spaceman Spiff said...

There's this old song that goes "Kuch tho log kahenge, logon ka kaam hai kehna. Chodon, bekaar ki baatoon mein, kaheen beeth na jaaye raina." I strongly believe in that mantra. People will talk. That's human nature. The problem arises when the line between "well-meaning advice" and "just plain mean and bitchy" gets blurred. Wit time, you'll leran to figure that out. :)

So as Hyderabadi would say, "Lite lo mama" :P

Mrsupole said...

Only you live "your" life and have to live with each choice you make in that life. Others can give you advice. Some will be good advice while some may be bad advice, and only you can decide how you feel about the advice.

But I do think that most people who offer you advice do so because they are trying to help you to not make the same mistakes they made in their own life and sometimes their friends or families life.

Usually advice is free, but mistakes can be costly, and I think that deep in ones heart one learns who gives good advice and who does not. But what is good advice and what is bad, well that is something only you can decide, what is good for one person may be bad for another. That is life, choices one makes, good or bad, it is your life, your choice, you are the one who has to live it, no one else.

Live it up, enjoy the world, enjoy your friends, screw all this advice, live each day as if it is your last because it could be.

You are so young, so go out and have fun, but stay safe, so you do have many, many days of fun.

God bless.

vaneneng said...

You Go Girl! :) I agree, it's your life and you really shouldn't be bothered by anyone whose not worth your time, just do what makes you happy Madhu.. Godbless sis! :* ♥

R. Ramesh said...

yeppp. u right boss..pain in the ass types r there scattered all around..:) but well keep singing it's my life...

albusclosethedoor said...

Truly said, "Live your life so you have nothing to regret." - Masashi Kishimoto

Brian Miller said...

woohoo! tell it...haha...ultimately you have to make the decision on who you are going to listen to...yourself or all the voices that want to tell you how to live...strong statement!

Rahul Bhatia said...

Madhulika, Enjoy your individuality! Let people talk....

Muhammad Israr said...

oh girl...come on...dont be so upset in life... listen to everybody but do only whatever you feel like doing...chill....life is short so its not worth thinking about people who doesnt matter to you :)

sawan said...

i loved the photograph! <3

rivercat said...

yes, i agree with you, great post :)

Life Unordinary said...

middle finger huh..that bad? :) how about a bigchunk of something chocolate, life is always better after chocolate

jayendrasharan said...

There was so much in your words..i liked your attitude..it is up to some extent matches with mine..so i am bound to follow your blog..one thing..i suggest..dont mind..as of the words written here, the photo does not suit..you should have faced front!!!!!!!!!!!! for that kind of atti. :)

cheers
jayendra
http://jayendrasharan.wordpress.com

Cloud Nine said...

Dear Madhulika, Glad i visited your blog:) Great layout and wonderful posts! Following you now on! And girl, you are one with ATTITUDE:) Love the tagline :I love myself. Will be back regulaly:)

Anonymous said...

@Cloud Nine: I agree. One should have the desired attitude and should be like:
I am my personal favorite and i love myself.

Sie said...

sis I have passed again another award for you..I know your busy so no need to do any post ok :)

teenager said...

i agree with you :)
afterol it's your life
your thoughts are really realistic
i lyked that :)
i want you to check out my posts too

http://itsthewayilive.blogspot.com/2011/10/life-is-short.html
do follow it , if you like it :)

S H A M I L said...

Heeey! I love it! Im definitely following!!! Bravo! Its sharp and so kind at the same time! Thats what people need so much nowadays! Thank You!
Cheers! :)

S H A M I L said...

Heeey! I love it! Im definitely following!!! Bravo! Its sharp and so kind at the same time! Thats what people need so much nowadays! Thank You!
Cheers! :)

Timoteo said...

When the fickle finger of fate gives you the finger, give the finger back to the fickle finger of fate! (And try to say that real fast ten times in a row!)

vish said...

child. that was beautiful. AIIC! am happy there is at least one more in this world like me.

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