Monday, June 27, 2011

Jerk-free life

Some days back I decided to be jerk-free. That just means that I made a decision to disallow people with different values than mine from affecting my life. As soon as I decided to avoid people who make me feel bad, and surround myself with people who are honest, sincere, loyal, and non-superficial, the quality of my life shot up many times over. I stay away from jerks, and jerks don’t affect me…Funny how that works, huh?

I have been so happy since I have made up my mind. I found a life free from the mental anguish to which I bounded myself. It was a decision that changed my life, allowing me to see that my happiness was entirely my choice. By asserting myself in keeping away from anyone who caused me drama, I was able to discover a world of things that brought me joy. Like attracts like, so a jerk-free world attracts jerk-free things.
The first thing to admit is that you are the cause of your own unhappiness. It’s not really a jerk’s fault that you are unhappy, but instead it is your choice to allow jerks to affect you..!! A jerk is a jerk , and these types had been brought to your life because you allowed it.
Even I have done the same thing to myself although I knew in the back of my head that the things I was doing was not really bringing me inner peace, and yet I did them anyways because it was what I knew. Jerks came and went, and that was a chapter in my life that I neither regret, nor do I yearn to have back. Self discovery of what I really wanted dictated that jerks were no longer required in life… and so it is...

You must heard of people breaking out in rashes when they’re aggravated, or not being able to sleep when they’re wrestling with an emotional issue.... I don't understand why people do this to themselves..!!!

My suggestion is... Please... Become jerk-free today and lose the jerks in your life. Why deal with them? There is a happy life waiting for you beyond their veil of frustration :)

Some guy tell you he loves you but can’t be with you when it counts?…BUH-BYE…Someone tells you you’re over reacting?…GET LOST…A buddy laying a guilt trip on you?…I’M OUTTA HERE…Your man hinting that he’d like you more if you were different in just this way?…INSECURE BIMBOS ARE IN THE OTHER BUILDING. Stop associating with dick-wads and you’ll soon discover bad ailments in your life will magically disappear


Sherry Q said...

Well Said!!!

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Jyoti Mishra said...

A jerk is a jerk ..
I totally agree with your point.
These nutcases sometimes spoil everything.

WhencuT Sra1 said...

One thing to mention
without jerks i would miss such a nice post

Anonymous said...

It's always good to realize when someone is not enriching your life. I don't know if it's the best idea to just brush them off or be rude, but avoiding toxic individuals is a good idea

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Vishakha said...

Works wonders for me!! :) A twisted approach!
Keeping away from Mendacious "Jerks" from now on..

Madhulika said...

@ Sherry Q: Thanks :)

Madhulika said...

@ Jyoti: Yeah... They really spoil our life... and in my opinion it better to be alone then to be with some jerks..!!

Madhulika said...

@ Sara: Thanks anna :)

Madhulika said...

@ Ivy Bliss: Thanks dear.. and you are most welcome to follow me..!!

Madhulika said...

@ Timothy Bowen: I agree that may be its rude to brush them away... but my question is why to suffer all the dramas when its not worth it..!!

Madhulika said...

@ Vishakha: I am glad you have taken a decision.. finally *wink*

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